From Overworked Lawyer To Soul Aligned Life!
I have made it my mission to help women get their SPARKLE back, find the courage to
"GO FOR IT" and design a life they truly desire.
I’ve been frustrated in my life and career and pivoted more than once! started two businesses that I ended up ditching within the first year because they were just not aligned with me. I’ve been in a marriage that failed and ended in a divorce. I’ve repressed myself so much it became an unconscious defence mechanism to try and minimise feelings of guilt, shame, anxiety, and unworthiness with the way my life was playing out, that it manifested in physical symptoms and psychological distress.
Why? Because I followed tradition, the script, the plan, the expectation that was laid before me and had been passed on for generations in my family. I had no courage to speak my truth or even know what it was.
So many women feel OVERWORKED and UNFULFILLED these days. Life seems to pull us in hundreds of directions all the time. If that's you, you're probably feeling burned out and overwhelmed!
I GET IT!
I've been where you are............
I gave my life to my corporate career as a Lawyer, working long days, sometimes pulling all-nighters, including weekends and everything else took a back seat, I was stressed, exhausted, and felt stuck in a rut!, I went from a job I loved to losing my spark for everything in my life and hated going to work. I knew my life was meant for something more than just this, feeling so disconnected from myself and that nagging voice in my head that just would not go away saying "is this it, is this life?"
I was living a corporate nightmare! Constant stress and burnout, working 15-16 hour days, sometimes 7 days a week. I was miserable and unfulfilled!.
AND FOR WHAT?
To trade FREEDOM for money, and HAPPINESS for status!?
I worked my ass off to create a life and career that I wanted to be happy and proud of. I was married, 2 incredible sons, had a successful career as a lawyer, my own home, went on amazing holidays. I was living a life on the outside that looked picture perfect!
AND THEN.........I had a moment right out of Elizabeth Gilberts's memoir and later movie 'Eat Pray Love', literally down on my knees crying, I looked around at my perfect life, and realised I was completely and utterly unhappy!!
How had I gotten here?
To my logical and rational mind, this seemed ridiculous - wasn't I in a career that most people only dreamed of???
Instead of dealing with this knowing, I distracted myself by keeping busy and saying to myself, this job will get better and I invested way too much to achieve this.
But then one day........I DID IT!!! I'd had enough!! I was over it! all the overwhelm and the feeling of being overworked, the burnout, the feelings of unfulfillment! and I took the leap of faith, I found the courage and escaped the rat race and my 9-5. I handed in my resignation and I left a successful corporate career in law which I spent 16 years in the making, all because I surrendered to the guidance of my Soul.
I’ve been frustrated in my life and career and pivoted more than once! started two businesses that I ended up ditching within the first year because they were just not aligned with me. I’ve been in a marriage that didn’t work and ended in a divorce, I’ve repressed myself so much it became an unconscious defence mechanism to try and minimise feelings of guilt, shame, anxiety, and unworthiness with the way my life was playing out that it manifested in physical symptoms and psychological distress.
Why? Because I followed tradition, the script, the plan, the expectation that was laid before me and had been passed on for generations in my family. I had no courage to speak my truth or even know what it was
Fast forward to today, I found the support I needed to leave behind the life I thought I was ‘supposed’ to create, for the one my Soul was craving to live. I’ve never felt so free in all my life.
I live life with joy, fulfillment, freedom, and inner peace, which has led me to run my passion and purpose-filled business today. I am proud to call myself a SOULPRENEUR, leading from the heart and finding my ultimate FREEDOM.
Now I am so passionate to help other women redesign their life, no longer have to live the 'traditional' 'conventional' life expected of them, and to help them rip away all those labels of expectation, and discover their authentic self and have live a life that is purposeful and aligned with their authentic self.
I speak to so many women who are afraid of going after their dreams, of investing in themselves and in their visions, afraid of what others, or society, might think of them or afraid of failing.
Here’s the thing, my story… it didn’t break me, In the end, it made me so much stronger than I ever thought possible. It made me build my life, every day I wake up, I get to choose ME, I get to chase my dream and create my future, Is that selfish? I don’t know, but to be honest, you only have ONE life and I don’t want to look back at my life and regret all the things I DIDN’T DO!
THERE'S ONLY ONE REGRET THAT I HAVE......I WISHED I HAD DONE IT MUCH SOONER!!
Become the creator and curator of a life that you LOVE, because you deserve it, In fact, you owe it to yourself.
You Have Two Choices:
Stay stagnant and trapped in the never-ending hustle and grind of success, surviving instead of thriving and constant 'DOING' instead of 'BEING'
Will you awaken to your fullest potential and make the quantum leap you’ve been waiting to take to align with the authentic you?